The five C’s of a beautiful relationship…

After enjoying 12 years of wedding bliss and being blessed three lovely children, I’m definitely in a position to tell you about the five C’s can make your relationship successful. The five C’s I’m talking about are.. Commitment, Coordination, Cooperation, Communication and Care(please check the links to each of these C’s in my earlier posts. Each of it has been detailed in those links)
     If you really are looking for a long standing relationship that you would like to have for a life time , then you must definitely dive in these five  C’s I was talking about.
   This is purely based on my personal experience and I just wanted to help the people who really are in search of help to improve or just trying to make  relationship work. All the best!!!

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Coordination and Cooperation.. Commitments to successful relationship

     Coordination so simple as it sounds, isn’t really that easy when it comes to the real world of application. For a project to be completely done, there should be coordination between all the individuals and the forces both internal and external. Similarly, when in a relation, to make it run smoothly, there should be coordination between the partners. What ever the circumstances and the conditions are, they should never give this up. Coordination, helps the partners to understand each other in a better manner. As I said earlier,coordination is the most important commitment that each of the partners should make, before entering a relationship. Also remember that Coordination paves a path for better Communication.
       Coming to Cooperation,for a balance, there should be equal weights. And for a cart to run,there should be two wheels on either sides. When it comes to a relationship, the wheels are the partners and the cart is the relationship to which they are being attached. So as ensure a smooth run for the cart, called relationship, both the partners should cooperate with each other. Let it be sharing the duties or managing the finances, everything should be done together, or atleast be communicated. If they don’t take this as a commitment, and look out for differences, their relationship is definitely not going to work. So the second commitment, that is must, for  a relationship to run smoothly, is nothing else but, Cooperation.
       Now I hope that you got to know what are the two key Commitments for a successful relationship. They are nothing but,Coordination and Cooperation.

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Silence…will slowly kill your relationship…

Silence is definitely not gold. If silence has entered in your relationship,then its a warning bell. It will kill your relationship,for sure. Please open up and let your partner know about you. If you are silently taking up all that comes your way,then you are just inviting differences between both of you.

If you are doubtful about your partners reception of your problem,then just think of the ways of how you can put forth it. But,please do not choose to stay mute and keep your partner ignorant of what you are going through. There is nothing good or bad about making your intentions clear to your partner. Instead this will result in a mutual understanding between you two. This will help you relationship to grow and flourish.

If you start being mute,for the fear of acceptance,from your partner,you have chosen the wrong path. Hiding things,will call for distrust. When the partners don’t trust each other, how will the relations sustain. Trust is the foundation for any relationship. So, please sit together, and share your feelings about all that is happening to you. Have a listening ear too. This will strengthen your relationship. Communication is the key to any relationship.

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When is it right time to start your family..

      These days marriages are getting late …reasons are many..everybody has turned money minded, ambitious trying to prove themselves and many more. Whatever the reason is,both the girl and the boy,are not ready to tie the wedlock till they are turning 30.
       At this age,men might still be strong,but when it comes to women, their internal organs start weakening,lessing their chances of bearing a baby. This deteoration multiples as they start groing older. This shall lead to several other complications. Lesser chances of conceiving, prone to abortions at early weeks, weaker womb that cannot carry the baby for full term, improper growth of the fetus, complications in the baby’s health and many more. I amn’t a doctor to put everything in detail, but my personal experience from friends,family and ofcourse myself , helped me gain knowledge of all these.
        Does your inner concious permit you to bring in an unhealthy child to this world?? Can you bear that your kid is unwell?? As you keep growing old, your body weakens, So you can hardly manage the needs of a present generation kid. Todays kids are all hyperactive and very demanding. They can’t wait for you to answer them a lil while after. It is now or never for them. Can you really bear this attitude after all those years of independence you enjoyed??? The answer is a big NO, for sure.
      So,its a little advice to all the couples who are going to tie knot, hurryup, don’t delay to start a family. To put up yourself in the perfect frame, have healthy children when you are young. This shall also ensure that as you grow old, there will be shoulders ready to bear you…all the best….

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Commitment…the reason behind a successful relationship

        Yes,definetly it is commitment, the reason behind a successful relationship. Commitment lessens the pain in little adjustments made in a relationship. Not everybody is perfect or imperfect. It is your opinion about others, that creates perfection or imperfection. Nobody can suddenly become perfect or imperfect.Just stop being judgemental and then see the results.
       In a relationship, it is necessary for both the partners to adjust themselves. Changes are must. Accept this truth. So, little changes will definetly make a great difference in your relationship. You shall win the trust of your partner. This will add charm to your relationship.
         If you are commited to a relationship, with all your heart, there will definetly be a beautiful atmosphere around you. Though you are admant in giving up certain habits,the aura of your relationship will for sure help you get rid of that too. You shall learn the joy of giving. This will make you a better human being.
         Relationship cannot be maintained if only one partner is commited to it. Commitment should be on either sides. This will make the relationship work and also grow stronger. So, if you are ready for this, then definetly you will turnout to be the best partner ever…

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