After enjoying 12 years of wedding bliss and being blessed three lovely children, I’m definitely in a position to tell you about the five C’s can make your relationship successful. The five C’s I’m talking about are.. Commitment, Coordination, Cooperation, Communication and Care(please check the links to each of these C’s in my earlier posts. Each of it has been detailed in those links)
If you really are looking for a long standing relationship that you would like to have for a life time , then you must definitely dive in these five C’s I was talking about.
This is purely based on my personal experience and I just wanted to help the people who really are in search of help to improve or just trying to make relationship work. All the best!!!
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Coordination so simple as it sounds, isn’t really that easy when it comes to the real world of application. For a project to be completely done, there should be coordination between all the individuals and the forces both internal and external. Similarly, when in a relation, to make it run smoothly, there should be coordination between the partners. What ever the circumstances and the conditions are, they should never give this up. Coordination, helps the partners to understand each other in a better manner. As I said earlier,coordination is the most important commitment that each of the partners should make, before entering a relationship. Also remember that Coordination paves a path for better Communication.
Coming to Cooperation,for a balance, there should be equal weights. And for a cart to run,there should be two wheels on either sides. When it comes to a relationship, the wheels are the partners and the cart is the relationship to which they are being attached. So as ensure a smooth run for the cart, called relationship, both the partners should cooperate with each other. Let it be sharing the duties or managing the finances, everything should be done together, or atleast be communicated. If they don’t take this as a commitment, and look out for differences, their relationship is definitely not going to work. So the second commitment, that is must, for a relationship to run smoothly, is nothing else but, Cooperation.
Now I hope that you got to know what are the two key Commitments for a successful relationship. They are nothing but,Coordination and Cooperation.
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Yes,definetly it is commitment, the reason behind a successful relationship. Commitment lessens the pain in little adjustments made in a relationship. Not everybody is perfect or imperfect. It is your opinion about others, that creates perfection or imperfection. Nobody can suddenly become perfect or imperfect.Just stop being judgemental and then see the results.
In a relationship, it is necessary for both the partners to adjust themselves. Changes are must. Accept this truth. So, little changes will definetly make a great difference in your relationship. You shall win the trust of your partner. This will add charm to your relationship.
If you are commited to a relationship, with all your heart, there will definetly be a beautiful atmosphere around you. Though you are admant in giving up certain habits,the aura of your relationship will for sure help you get rid of that too. You shall learn the joy of giving. This will make you a better human being.
Relationship cannot be maintained if only one partner is commited to it. Commitment should be on either sides. This will make the relationship work and also grow stronger. So, if you are ready for this, then definetly you will turnout to be the best partner ever…
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