We shall give them wings…

   Every child is gifted. They have their own creative minds. They can create wonders, if recognised, and trained in the very direction where their interest lies. This is hard to believe, but very true.
     It is the parents, who out of possessiveness or say some inherent fears, don’t generally let the child follow his interests. Generally, parents turn over protective, saying that they have lost their childhood for So and So reasons. And So,they don’t want their child to go through the pain they had gone through. This is now mere foolishness, if you lost your childhood, for some reasons, How can you just say that your child might also lose it?? When you are behind him, with all your experiences, How can your child lose his way out???
      You missed out on your dreams. So,you know the pain behind it. Now,knowingly, why do want your child to follow your dreams, forgetting the fact that he has his own to chase. So dear parents,
let us just give wings,let them fly…
don’t worry,we are always behind them, to hold them, if they fall
Let them follow their dreams,
We shall lay the path,
Let them choose the destination,
We shall give them direction,
Let them reach there…
We shall celebrate it and feel proud….
If he fails to do So…
Don’t worry, we are always there to push him up and let him fly…
We shall give them wings and let them fly…

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When is it right time to start your family..

      These days marriages are getting late …reasons are many..everybody has turned money minded, ambitious trying to prove themselves and many more. Whatever the reason is,both the girl and the boy,are not ready to tie the wedlock till they are turning 30.
       At this age,men might still be strong,but when it comes to women, their internal organs start weakening,lessing their chances of bearing a baby. This deteoration multiples as they start groing older. This shall lead to several other complications. Lesser chances of conceiving, prone to abortions at early weeks, weaker womb that cannot carry the baby for full term, improper growth of the fetus, complications in the baby’s health and many more. I amn’t a doctor to put everything in detail, but my personal experience from friends,family and ofcourse myself , helped me gain knowledge of all these.
        Does your inner concious permit you to bring in an unhealthy child to this world?? Can you bear that your kid is unwell?? As you keep growing old, your body weakens, So you can hardly manage the needs of a present generation kid. Todays kids are all hyperactive and very demanding. They can’t wait for you to answer them a lil while after. It is now or never for them. Can you really bear this attitude after all those years of independence you enjoyed??? The answer is a big NO, for sure.
      So,its a little advice to all the couples who are going to tie knot, hurryup, don’t delay to start a family. To put up yourself in the perfect frame, have healthy children when you are young. This shall also ensure that as you grow old, there will be shoulders ready to bear you…all the best….

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Commitment…the reason behind a successful relationship

        Yes,definetly it is commitment, the reason behind a successful relationship. Commitment lessens the pain in little adjustments made in a relationship. Not everybody is perfect or imperfect. It is your opinion about others, that creates perfection or imperfection. Nobody can suddenly become perfect or imperfect.Just stop being judgemental and then see the results.
       In a relationship, it is necessary for both the partners to adjust themselves. Changes are must. Accept this truth. So, little changes will definetly make a great difference in your relationship. You shall win the trust of your partner. This will add charm to your relationship.
         If you are commited to a relationship, with all your heart, there will definetly be a beautiful atmosphere around you. Though you are admant in giving up certain habits,the aura of your relationship will for sure help you get rid of that too. You shall learn the joy of giving. This will make you a better human being.
         Relationship cannot be maintained if only one partner is commited to it. Commitment should be on either sides. This will make the relationship work and also grow stronger. So, if you are ready for this, then definetly you will turnout to be the best partner ever…

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